Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Meeting #3: Grace


Grace

This week, the lesson was delivered in two parts, since both of us had a bit we wanted to say on the topic of grace.  Here is the handout, filled in and slightly expanded.  



What is grace?
·         God’s love
·         God’s forgiveness
·         God’s power

CHARIS: grace, the state of kindness and favor toward someone, often with a focus on a benefit given to the object; by extension: gift, benefit, credit; words of kindness and benefit; thanks, blessing.

What is grace?
·         Romans 5:2 (forgiveness/love)
·         Romans 6:1 (forgiveness)
·         John 1:16 (love/forgiveness)
·         Romans 11:6 (love)
·         Acts 4:33 (power)
·         2 Corinthians 12:9 (power)

The Mud Puddle
You live in a mud puddle called sin.  Grace is God seeing you in your mud puddle, loving you, and reaching over to give you a hug in your mud puddle.  Grace is God grabbing you by the shoulders and pulling you out of the puddle so that you can stand on firm ground and move your legs as God's created you to.  So you are loved, forgiven, and empowered. 

Three aspects of grace:
1.      God offers us love.
2.      Jesus offers us forgiveness. 
3.      The Holy Spirit offers us power.

2 Corinthians 8:9—we are saved through God’s grace through Christ's sacrifice

G od's
R iches
A t
C hrist's
E xpense
 

First kind of grace: what God gives us—love, forgiveness, and power.
Second kind of grace: God’s grace, given to us, which we extend to others.

“Social graces”: etiquette, poise, always knowing what to say, etc. = focus on others, not self.
(Matthew 7:3-5! When giving a rebuke, ALWAYS focus on yourself first and examine your own life for issues!)

God’s grace from us to others:
1.      Love (God)
2.      Forgiveness (Jesus)
3.      Power (Holy Spirit)
4.      HUMILITY – our special task!

Grace: The ability to view others through the lens of Christ’s love, acting with humility and selflessness, offering ungrudging forgiveness, encouraging and building them up in the Lord.

Grace looks like...
  1. putting others’ desires/good above your own (love)
  2. forgiving someone who has hurt you (forgiveness)
  3. building others up and encouraging them in the Lord (empowering)
  4. giving glory to God and deference to others (humility)
  5. relying on God to give us the ability to do this (love, forgiveness, power)

LOVE...Is this action or statement kind?  Does it follow the Golden Rule?
FORGIVENESS...Am I holding a grudge or trying to get back at someone?
POWER...Am I building the other person up or bringing them closer to God?
HUMILITY...Am I being humble, or seeking to make myself look good?  Will this bless someone else?

G-Race: God’s power for God’s race.

Personal reflection: What one practical step can you take to become more full of grace? Make it your goal for this week.

Ideas:
-In conversations, focus on building the other person up.
-In a social environment, try to ensure that others are enjoying themselves.
-At home, make it your goal to interact graciously with your parents and siblings.
-When spending time with friends, ask God to help you make your attitudes, words, and actions full of grace.

Friday, September 18, 2015

Meeting #2: Waiting on God




This week, we talked about waiting on God.  I took the handout for this week and filled it in with "my talking."  

Wait for it…
Tuesday, September 15, 2015
A Quick Guide How To…fail at fixing yourself 
 When I went to Ellerslie this past summer, I was determined to learn everything I possibly could.  I was sick of myself, and I wanted to be completely broken, so that Jesus could reform me in His image.  For the first week or so, I did my absolute best to break myself, but it worked about as well (and was as smart as) trying to break my own arm.  Finally, after a miserable week that accomplished nothing, I realized that I have to wait for God.  He knows what He wants to fix in me...but He wants to do it in His own time.  I need to wait for Him...while doing what He has shown me I need to do.  So, I started waiting on Him.  
God has His own timetable. 
The Bible talks about waiting a lot. I finally realized that I should take a look in the Bible and see what it has to say on the topic of waiting.  The following verses are just a few of the verses I found that talked about waiting.  (I used NASB)

  • Psalm 25:3 “Indeed, none of those who wait for You will be ashamed…”
  • Psalm 25:12 “Wait for the Lord; Be strong and let your heart take courage; Yes, wait for the Lord.
  • Psalm 37:34 “Wait for the Lord and keep His way, And He will exalt you to inherit the land…”
  • Psalm 40:1  “I waited patiently for the Lord; And He inclined to me and heard my cry.”
 Now, Hebrew is a lot like English in that it has a lot of words that mean "wait".  We have linger, stick around, bide, dally, sit tight, and so on.  In the four verses above, the same Hebrew word for "wait" is used.  That is the word QAVAH (kah-VAH)
 
Qavah  To eagerly wait for, even to the point of lingering.  Like a rope that endures a lot of tension over a span of time, qavah is an enduring wait.
  • Therefore, return to your God, Observe kindness and justice, And qavah for your God continually.  (Hosea 12:6)
  • Therefore, return to your God, Observe kindness and justice, And eagerly [wait, even to the point of lingering], for your God continually.  (Hosea 12:6)
 However, QAVAH isn't the only word used for wait.  There is another word that is used to described, not only how we wait for God, but how He waits for us.  This is the word CHAKAH (khah-KAH)
Chakah  To wait and long for.  Chakah implies a long wait for something desired.
  •  Isaiah 30:18  “Therefore the Lord longs to be gracious to you, And therefore He waits on high to have compassion on you…”
  • Isaiah 64:4  “For from days of old they have not heard or perceived by ear, Nor has the eye seen a God besides You, Who acts in behalf of the one who waits for Him.”
  • Zephaniah 3:8  “Therefore wait for Me,” declares the Lord, “For the day when I rise up as a witness.”
 Now, we know that we are to wait for God.  But...what does that look like, lived out?
The Great Dance
 I've heard the Christian Life described as a tango dance.  In a tango, the two people are completely connected.  The man knows where he is going in the dance, and all the woman needs to do is instantly mirror his movements.  So if he steps right, she needs to step in the same direction.  When they are in complete unity, the dance is smooth and enjoyable to watch.  In the same way, we need to be attune to God and His leading.  If He "steps left", we need to respond right away.  If He tells us to help our sibling with a project, we'd better go do it!  But we need to wait for HIM to lead.
But what about…
  • Philippians 2:12 “So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling…”
  • 1 Thess. 2:9 For you recall, brethren, our labor and hardship, how working night and day so as not to be a burden to any of you, we proclaimed to you the gospel of God.
  • 1 Timothy 4:15  Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress.”
  • Colossians 3:23  Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men…”

How can you wait…AND work?
This is the hardest part of the lesson and the part that I am still growing in.  So don't take anything I say with absolute authority, and, as always, PLEASE check what I say against the Bible.  That being said though, as I was pondering how to wait on God AND "work out my salvation," I came upon this verse.
  •   Colossians 1:29 “For this purpose also I labor, striving according to His power, which mightily works within me.”
 I realized that, as I wait upon God, He gives me the power to deal with what He shows me.  If He shows me a problem, I need to act upon it.  I am waiting for Him to show me something that I need to correct...while correcting what He has already showed me.
Now, the concept of waiting on God doesn't end with the Old Testament.  I found quite a few verses about waiting in the New Testament, using a variety of Greek words.  There was one in particular that I wanted to share with you: APEKDOCHOMAI (a-peck-DECK-hoe-my).
Apekdochomai  To assiduously and patiently wait for.  It requires a complete separation that is not desired.   Apekdochamai is the active and persistent waiting for the separation to be removed.  
  • Hebrews 9:28 “…looking for the blessed hope and the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Christ Jesus…”
  • 1 Corinthians 1:7 “…so that you are not lacking in any gift, awaiting eagerly the revelation of our Lord Jesus Christ…” 
This means that we have been forcibly separated from the One we love, and we long to be with Him again.  We are waiting ever so eagerly for His return, and we won't be at rest until we are with Him again.  This concept comes out really well in the following passage.
 

                 Romans 8:23-25
  • 23 And not only this, but also we ourselves, having the first fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, apekdochomai-ing for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our body. 24 For in hope we have been saved, but hope that is seen is not hope; for who hopes for what he already sees? 25 But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we apekdochomai for it. 
Now, there's one more concept I want to share with you.

Don’t Pitch Your Tent
This story I heard at EllerslieEric was a very good singer in college, and he managed to convince one of the top four vocal coaches in the world to take him on as a student.  At the very first lesson, the coach told him that he wanted Eric to practice for 6 hours a day.  Eric was rather dismayed, because singing for 6 hours a day is a huge chunk of time.  Obviously, he wasn't able to do it, so he'd come in each week having practiced only two hours a day, and his coach would yell at him.  Well, this went on for about 8 months.  Eric would practice or perform like his coach would demand, yet never once did he hear a complement from his coach.  So, after 8 months, he plucked up the courage to ask him.  The coach asked, "When you were a kid, you played soccer, right?"  "yes..."  "How good were you after a month of playing?"  "I stank!"  "...exactly!"  Of course, this took Eric aback, but his coach went on, "However, you have done more than 99.9% of the population.  See, singing is an endless frontier, and you have taken one step into it.  Most people never take that one step.  However, you are looking for a place to pitch your tent.  DO NOT pitch your tent.  Ever.  You can always get better!"
And that's what I want to say: don't EVER pitch your tent.  You could read the book of John once and understand the gospel.  But you could study it a lifetime and still not understand half of God is saying through it.  So don't get comfortable with where you are.  Always keep moving forward in the endless frontier of knowing Jesus! 

Bible Verse for next lesson: Micah 7:7

After the lesson, we played a game that taught following skills.  Once that was over, we split the girls into three small groups, who then discussed the lesson within their groups.  We closed the evening with singing.  

Wednesday, September 2, 2015

Meeting #1: Focus-Setting for the Semester


Our first meeting began with singing, as always.  Since we had several new girls, we decided to start out with some common songs that most would probably know: Be Thou My Vision, Amazing Grace, and In Christ Alone.  The singing sounded wonderful--I think this is the loudest our group has been yet!  The girls who know how to read the alto/tenor lines really help it sound amazing.

After singing, Jael prayed to "officially" start the meeting, and then we spent about 30-45 minutes doing icebreakers, connecting names with faces, and getting to know each other a bit.  Next was the lesson, which was meant to give some background on Bright Lights, on some specific protocol for our group, and to talk about our goals for this semester. The lesson notes handout is copied below (with blanks filled in).

Overview of Bright Lights
BRIGHT is an acronym for:
Being
Radiant
In
Godliness,
Holiness, and
Testimony

Overall mission:
         ·         To encourage girls to be strong for the Lord in their youth.

Goals:
1.      Encourage girls to pursue God
2.      Provide positive peer influence
3.      Provide accountability  

Scripture verse “theme” is 1 Timothy 4:12, which says,
Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith, and in purity.  

Bright Lights Mascoutah Protocol
1.      During the lesson, please raise your hand before talking.
2.      Be respectful, but not overly so! 
3.      Feel free to disagree with us.
   a.      Compare what we say with Scripture.

   b.      If you challenge something we say, be sure it’s done in humility and with a teachable heart.
4.      Make it your goal to learn!

Bright Lights Mascoutah Goals for Fall 2015
     1.     Focus.
a.      Be completely fixed on Jesus (Hebrews 12:1-3).
b.      Don’t be distracted by the things of the world.
c.       Be in tune with God’s will by prioritizing time with Him through prayer and Bible study.

     2.    Others-Focus.
a.      Look for ways to serve.
b.      Philippians 2:4: Look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.
c.       Be willing to go out of your way to minister to those around you.
Personal reflection: What does this mean for you?
How is God calling you to go out of your way to serve?

     3.     Sober-Mindedness.
a.      Be serious about the things of God.
b.      Be willing to think deeply about Spiritual matters. (Philippians 2:12)

     4.     Humility.
a.      Humility does not mean exaggerating failure
b.      Humility does not mean you can’t be happy about success.
c.       Where is your heart?
Personal reflection: What does this mean for you?
Where is your heart—are you seeking God’s glory or your own?
d.      “More of You; less of me.”

     5.     See Jesus.
a.      Philippians 3:7-8: that I may know him and the power of his resurrection...
b.      Ginosko


After the lesson, each girl spent some time in quiet prayer time to set individual goals for the year. (For those who missed the meeting but plan to come to Bright Lights the rest of the semester, we encourage you to do the same: take 15 minutes or so to ask the Lord where He is leading you this semester and what His purposes are for you in Bright Lights. We'll email out the worksheet to those of you who have signed up but couldn't make the first meeting.)

We then spent a little while enjoying snacks and fellowship, then closed out the meeting with singing. Our songs were Mind of Christ, Take My Life and Let It Be, Satisfied, and Come Away from Rush and Hurry (click on a song title to view lyrics).

Jael and I will be praying for each one of you these next two weeks, and we look forward to seeing you all again on Tuesday, September 15th.

Also, please remember to memorize Matthew 20:25-28 before next meeting!

Blessings!

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

Bright Lights fall 2015 schedule

Bright Lights starts next Tuesday!  Like last semester, we will meet from 6:30 to 8:30 every other Tuesday.

We will have a slightly different meeting format from last semester, and we plan to post lesson notes here after each meeting. Below is a current list of topics, which, of course, is subject to change (you know us).

Sept 1 -- First meeting and focus-setting for the semester (lesson by Sylvia)
Sept 15 -- Topic: Waiting on God (Jael)
Sept 29 -- Topic: Grace (both Jael and Sylvia)
Oct 13 -- Identity and Personality (Sylvia)
Oct 27 -- Dealing with Non-Females (Jael)
Nov 10 -- Time Value and Investment (Sylvia)
Nov 24 -- Security in Christ (Jael)
Dec 8 -- joint party with His Lighthouse

If you would like to join or have questions, please feel free to contact us at brightlightsmascoutah@gmail.com.